According to the datasheet for the YMF262, pin 3 is /IC 'initial clear', which should be held low for 400/F(requency) seconds. So, seeing it high a tiny bit after startup (and 4.6V should be really enough) is fine.
Since the oscillator is still not verified, but really important (and there could be footprint / pin-out issues), I'd suggest we find a way the oscilloscope giving you usable results first 😀
If you're just seeing a high level, it might be a not working oscillator or as you mention or it could be a wrong timebase on your oscilloscope. Since you're seeing elevated voltage, I'm assuming the voltage division setting is somewhat in a sensible range. Maybe it's just a matter of setting the oscilloscope to a more fitting time division. Can you find a button / setting that allows you to change something like a timebase (e.g. 100ms / 1ms / 100ns / 10ns /...)? If it's a cheap one, it might not have enough sampling rate or bandwidth to show this frequency, though, which might be the reason you're not getting much there.
It's just a very basic rule of thumb, but with those 14,318 MHz it should be at least 2.5 times the frequency, so with around 50MHz it might be ok-ish, even though values 5 times above would give better results. More details e.g. here:
https://www.picotech.com/library/blog/oscilloscope-tutorial
But even if it's less than a 50MHz scope, I'd hope it at least might show you some sort of non-flat voltage level, if you set it to its very lowest timebase. It doesn't need to be a properly displayed frequency then, but it should at least not be a fully flat high level.
If all that leads nowhere, I'd take a critical look at the footprint of the oscillator, compared to the oscillator's datasheet (and even if it really is an oscillator and not just a crystal). Oscillators usually have a dedicated pin 1 and need to be put in correctly, whereas crystals might fit two ways (all depending on the package type, of course). In the SMD world, there's also often 3,3V (or lower) ones which might not work here.
But, actually thinking of it again, to circumvent all this work, you could also simply just remove the oscillator and feed in the 14,318 MHz from the ISA-slot (B30 / backside, pin 30), to test if that changes something if you can't measure it:
https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/common … SA_Bus_pins.svg
Afterwards, I'd suggest looking at the end of the chain with your oscilloscope and go to the op-amp's outputs and check if there's some waveform there when it's playing (with e.g. the lowest timebase your scope can go to) and if you can maybe even make out it changing when some music plays.
If there's nothing at the output of the op-amp, then maybe it's something in the soldering (or defective parts) around the YAC and YMF - because your schematic did look fine to me, too. So if your software doesn't give you DRC errors, I'd say it should be ok, too.